So, have anyone tried stopping fapping?:chant:I tried to stop a short while ago, actually managed to go free for 3 weeks..But.. I accidently stumbled upon this page, and well..the rest is "history"I do stop sometimes. Not because I want to stop but because I just dont feel like fapping for some reason. I think the longest I have stopped was 2.5 months. I also usually dont fap when I travel on vacation.i usually dont feel the need or the urge to bust a nut when im in a relationship, which means i stop sometimes for months, as long as my gf services me. during the transition between relationships i do(often), or to relieve some tension thats been built up inside me.i dont think theres anything wrong with busting a nut or not.I tried.Went around 4 weeks.Then I came to my senses and thought: "Why?"Quote:Originally Posted by DenamicI tried.Went around 4 weeks.Then I came to my senses and thought: "Why?"Yeah, why indeed?I sometimes stop for a few days just to make sex with my girlfriend that much more pleasurable, and I certainly do it less when I have a girlfriend, but to me sex with someone else and sex alone are completely different things. It's not a substitute. I think it's more a stress reliever than anything else. I may have tried to stop when I went through a religious period in junior high, but I don't really remember. Some prescription medicines lower sexual drive, and when I'm using those medicines I sometimes find I just don't feel like doing it.But I suppose I average about once a day.BTW, masturbation is common not only among primates (like us), but many other animals: elephants (with their trunks!), dolphins, deer, penguins, killer whales, etc. But apparently male primates are the only male animals who have been observed masturbating to orgasm. (I guess it's a lot harder to tell in females.) Bonobos (the most sexually active primates) masturbate frequently, including females. Some researchers believe masturbation is unique to animals with a highly developed neocortex (believed to be the site of mammalian intelligence). Reptiles don't masturbate, and it's rare in birds (perhaps because most species of birds have no penis).How can you stop with so many beautiful girls around, Oh Yuko Ogura please come to me, I am begging, ahh some dreams never come true, I still wish her the very best.impossible for me...my max was 1 day....with so many torrents downloading everyday...how can you stop...You can't stop once you've started ... there's just no turning back!Since I'm female, I shik and don't fap. To answer your question though, yes, I've stopped for about as along as about 2 months before. Either because of life actually manifesting itself or because I didn't have a strong enough desire to. Generally though, I will only prolong my frustration a few days so that it ends as a -happier- ending.Quote:Originally Posted by AstbGenerally though, I will only prolong my frustration a few days so that it ends as a -happier- ending.Nicely put.My current girlfriend (21) "shiks," but says she had never had an orgasm during sex with another person until she started seeing me.My last girlfriend (40) orgasmed really easily during sex, but says she never shikked, and that she just couldn't get sexually aroused alone. I found it kind of hard to believe one could live 40 years without ever having..."shikked."A woman friend of mine, who has done some research on the subject, says that generally speaking, whereas men prefer to have visual stimulation while they "fap," women generally like to view or read something erotic beforehand, and then recall or imagine it as they shik. Anything comments?I once accidentally (honestly, it was an accident) saw a young neighbor woman "shik" when I was living in an undisclosed city in the U.S.. It was afternoon, and I went into the kitchen and looked out my window. In the adjacent building, no more than two or three meters away, one floor down from my own, I saw this woman lying on her bed (which was by the window). She pulled her shorts down to her mid-thighs, and went to work.I could only see her torso through the window, which meant that I couldn't see her face and therefore she couldn't see me. So I didn't have any incentive to turn away.It probably lasted about 20 minutes, and then, with her shorts still pulled down, she apparently fell asleep.BTW, considering her age and where she lived, I'm guessing she was a student at a nearby Ivy League university.I've also been in the reverse situation. In college, I was living in a house with about eight friends. I was in my own second-floor room, doing my thing, when I hear something, look up, and see a guy outside the window painting the house!Thankfully, he was discreet and pretended not to notice, but there was no way he couldn't have noticed. It was a big freakin' window, a small room, and he was no more than two meters from me.I was embarrassed as hell, but it was also too good to keep to myself, so I went downstairs and told my best friend about it. We laughed so hard we cried.