I've been wondering something and I want to know if someone else is like me. Is it normal to need to watch porno and to wank when we live with a girlfriend(a sexy japanese)?Wank on.If you chose to beat off to porn, girlfriend or no, just go ahead.Nothing abnormal about either.I agree with Denamic just keep doing it :)lol ^^Thank you for that nice answers :) Then I will go onQuote:Originally Posted by vacolaneI've been wondering something and I want to know if someone else is like me. Is it normal to need to watch porno and to wank when we live with a girlfriend(a sexy japanese)?How about doing it *with* your girlfriend. Side by side or to each other while watching porn~ nice way to spend an evening.that being said... My BF still looks at 4chan and does it on his own when I'm not in the mood....Thats nice, you seem to accept to watch it with him, but the problem is, boys and girls are different, if she would watch it with me I would feel bad, because its like a private thing, she wont enjoy watching it, she will do it for me, I feel porno is boy's stuff.About you, when you watch it with him, do you like watching a porno? You dont feel like, erm.. like jalous? because he watch porno and it makes him hard(certainly). So I feel shame about it.Anyway It cant be!!!As she is japanese, she watched the first porno movie of her life some month ago, it was me who show herShe hate I watch porno, pictures, or anything sexy japanese stuff, she feel like I go out with her just cose she is japanese. lol. So I hide^^ And when we hide it's a bigger pleasurI had a roommate my freshman year of college that thought her boyfriend didn't masturbate. What a joke. 99%+ of guys masturbate.If a girl is jealous of porn then she is not secure enough. Porn is a visual medium made for the purpose of sexual enjoyment. It is made to turn you on. It's not like you're saying you love the porn star instead of her.Porn is made to be enjoyed by all people who enjoy exploring their sexuality!If she feels you go out with her because she's Japanese, and that's not true, prove her wrong! Show her how much you care for her. Take her out for a nice evening doing something she enjoys give her a nice massage and then... (here's the catch) don't encourage her to have sex afterwards!Ask her what actors she thinks are hot and why. Why is she allowed to lust after someone but you aren't?Quote:Originally Posted by SDnekojinI had a roommate my freshman year of college that thought her boyfriend didn't masturbate. What a joke. 99%+ of guys masturbate.If a girl is jealous of porn then she is not secure enough. Porn is a visual medium made for the purpose of sexual enjoyment. It is made to turn you on. It's not like you're saying you love the porn star instead of her.Porn is made to be enjoyed by all people who enjoy exploring their sexuality!If she feels you go out with her because she's Japanese, and that's not true, prove her wrong! Show her how much you care for her. Take her out for a nice evening doing something she enjoys give her a nice massage and then... (here's the catch) don't encourage her to have sex afterwards!Ask her what actors she thinks are hot and why. Why is she allowed to lust after someone but you aren't?Standford University did a research and it proved that more women masturbate then menQuote:Originally Posted by HolzyStandford University did a research and it proved that more women masturbate then menI wouldn't mind seeing that study... I can't even imagine their methods..Even if that were the case, I bet more men masturbate to orgasm. Which doesn't really have any bearing to this conversation... but oh well...It's normal dude, you don't have to stop.Quote:How about doing it *with* your girlfriend. Side by side or to each other while watching porn~ nice way to spend an evening.Problem is, a girlfriend/partner can't always be ready. Sometimes she's not in the mood or it's the day of her month or blablabla. But porn is always there for you 24/7.Quote:If a girl is jealous of porn then she is not secure enough. Porn is a visual medium made for the purpose of sexual enjoyment. It is made to turn you on. It's not like you're saying you love the porn star instead of her.Porn is made to be enjoyed by all people who enjoy exploring their sexuality!Well, this is true. But not all girls are open-minded like you. Which is sad.