soft delete leaves a "this message was delete by <name>" thing when we view our own profile visitor messages... others can't see it but we can...can you enable the normal, hard delete option?Members can't hard-delete.Soft-delete is the more 'normal' option, and almost everything, even when deleted by mods, is soft-deleted.If it bothers you you could ask a mod to do it for you.True story.I only hard delete my own fuckups to hide evidence that points to the posibility that I may be flawed somehow.(I'm not, of course.)